Why are there so many single ladies?

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Haha I just recently read this. I find it super amusing. In a funny way it is quite real. So here are the reasons and answers to that question. What do you think? Where do I fit? Hahaha

1. The nice men are ugly.
2. The handsome men are not nice.
3. The handsome and nice men are gay.
4. The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married.
5. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men, have No money.
6. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men with money think we are only after their money.
7. The handsome men without money are after our money.
8. The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don’t think we are beautiful enough.
9. The men who think we are beautiful, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are cowards.
10.The men who are somewhat handsome, somewhat nice and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!
11.The men, who never make the first move, automatically lose interest in us when we take the initiative.

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Do It Your Way

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Song Title: Do It Your Way

Written by: Cheh Peng, Chu Qiao, Jia Zhi, Kai Sin, Leon Lim

It is finally time I post another song. This song was inspired during our song writing workshop. Together with 4 other wonderful people I wrote this song. I hope you all will like it.

I’m posting up the demo again. I somehow like the feel of the song. Just gives me the drive! Yeah….

This song was inspired when a catch phrase came up among us ‘Do It Your Way’. We were really struggling to get something out of our heads that everyone would really agree on. But this phrase just inspired us to know that we really just wanted it God’s way. The music just came to me as something passionately I wanted to scream out. With some nice lines given by Cheh Peng.

The Lyrics were masterfully crafted by all of them brainstorming what they really wanted to tell God. How we struggle to let it all go. But indeed we just want to let it go because we know what God has installed is the best. His way, His will. In the end we came out with this. Hope you guys love it

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Verse:

I am weak but You are strong

When I’m down, You lift me up

When my strength is gone

Refresh my heart

Search me Lord and know my thoughts

Deep inside I’ve always fought

I’m holding on it’s hard to let it go


Pre-Chorus:

Teach me and lead me

To glorify Your name

Chorus:

Do it Your way

Do it Your way

Not mine but Your will be done

Lord do it Your way

Do it Your way

Do it Your way

I surrender all to You

My everything

Lord do it Your way


Verse 2:

Forgiven all my hidden faults

My cherished sins my secret gods

Your loving grace

Has filled my life anew

I stand before you now redeemed

Your crimson blood has washed me clean

My heart is Yours

You have set me free


Bridge:

I’m letting go

I’m letting go

I’ll live for you alone

(Repeat)

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Mission Impossible Day 2

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Beautiful morning sun against the mosque nearby

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What a nice morning view to wake up to!

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You could just feel the nice warmth against your back as you peer down this balcony

Good Morning Angels, I think I heard the alarm beckon me to wake up cause today, we are being sent to a distant island for a trip of fun, sea and sand.

The view at the balcony though again was just mesmerizing. I just wish I could wake up to such a view every morning.

Soon we were at the jetty at Jesselton Point where I bargained for a boat ride to the infamous islands. We are going to 2 of them and this time, I’m armed with my high tech waterproof camera to take those beautiful underwater shots. [...]

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Mission Impossible Day 1

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View from our balcony at Kota Kinabalu

Some of you have been wondering why I have gone MIA for more than a month! Isn’t it obvious? I had to lay low cause I had to go on a mission.

This mission called for us to be:

1.    Fit and strong
2.    It also called for us to be really really sound mentally
3.    Well equipped
4.    Strong willed
5.    Steadfast
6.    Committed
7.    Skilled
8.    Man this list is getting scary…..I better stop

Anyway here is the report of Mission Impossible Day 1: Are we ready for this? [...]

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Found in You

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I have finally learnt how to stream the songs! Hallelujah! It was so tough trying to understand it but now. It is done!

This is a demo of the song we’ve done in the studio some weeks back. We’ve introduced it to the congregation last week. I’m leading it this week. What do you think of the song? Please please please share your comments. We need to gather your feedback as we’re deciding which songs to put into our album that we’re working on.

How did this song come to life?

Pastor’s inspired song was kept shelved for years. The project in which this song was supposed to be part of got shelved because of various reasons. When I came here, this was what I was assigned to do. Revive this project. We are naming it ‘Everlasting Project’! The joke is that this project was everlasting and never would be finished.

My understanding would be that this project will be everlasting and will continue to glorify God for the longest time! Amen?

So I was given 10 songs….the first one I worked on was this one. I was inspired to change the feel of the song. Bringing slightly slower and give it a more modern ballad feel. I’m wondering now if i should post up the old version for you all to hear the difference…..nah….hahaha. I’m so glad my boss allowed me to change his song slightly. Also he allowed me to post this up. I’m so honored.

I also changed the song to have two keys. The verse and the chorus being different keys to raise the feeling and mood of the song to focus on God.

Here are the lyrics of the song for your reference:

Verse:
No greater beauty I’ll ever see
No deeper wisdom can ever be
No Peace of mind I’ll ever find
Than what I’ve found in you

Verse (cont’d):
*No ocean wider than Your open arms
No mountain higher than Your mercy
No place on earth has purer love
Than what I’ve found in you

Chorus:
In You there’s hope for the hopeless
In You rest forevermore
In You there’s faith and forgiveness
Healing for sickness in You

Chorus (cont’d)
In You, in You
There’s strength for tomorrow
In You joy for our sorrow
In You unmerited favour in Jesus our Saviour
And that’s what I’ve found in

Song Composer : Lee Meng Cham

Singer :  *blush* me. So it is not so nice ok?  heehehe

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I’m back! Is that good?

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Guess what? I promised you a blogpost last night right? And here it is. I mean how late can this be?  It is morning already…Leon…..Haha.

This is a major update as I looked at the amount of blogpost these few months and I was like WHAT? So little? I think I have lost a lot of readers because of that. If you are one of them‚Ķ..please don’t go. I’m back.

I have been getting quite a lot of feedback my posts were all very emotional and well I describe it better as melancholic. I think I was just being too artsy fartsy (melancholic). Hahah. I’ve been really really missing home. The homesickness is due to many factors but in summary, I’m not over that.

Another thing was I dread relationships with people. I’m not a people oriented person. I’m very anti-social. I thank God people don’t perceive me that way because I make extremely a lot of effort not to be like that. I get so drained by the end of the day that I really don’t feel like doing anything anymore. I just need to recuperate. I have been more people oriented in this year than I have in almost my entire life. The things I’ve done, I’ve never imagined I’ll be able to do. I can’t believe some of you actually feedback and say that I’m pastoral. I never thought I was. Thank you. I’m trying hard to be ha ha ha. Such a contradicting person I am.

So over all I’ve just been really getting adjusted to my new life. In fact I just recovered from a bout of flu. Not even fully recovered. And yes it is ‚Äòswine flu’ cause I’m born in the year of a pig and I have a flu hahahah. Ok sorry lame joke.

Now that I’m here, I am so glad for the new people in my life. Friends who care and take care of me. I’m honored. At the same time, I’m feeling this huge pain cause the relationships back home in Malaysia‚Ķ..I’ve lost so many. It hurts extremely bad. I never realized an anti-social person could need friendship so bad. All these lost relationships.

I resolved! No melancholic posts anymore. So I had to take a long long while to get over it. I’m sorry everyone. So WATCH OUT! Now I’m back! I’ll update you all on so much that has happened since. As much as I can. I’ve been sooooo busy. I can post now cause I’m sick hahaha.

So start commenting again please. I miss your comments. I miss all the interaction we’ve had. I MISS YOU ALL.

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My latest Craze

Man I’m loving the sounds of Monk and Neagle. I’ve been so so so so so outdated. I got their album only recently. Terrible. Anyway here is a sneak preview of their sound before I write a review. Also I promise you more blogposts tonight! You got it right. Tonight I’m going to write something….wanna know what it is? You have to read to find out hahaha. So So So much has been happening. Too much in fact to write it all here. Enjoy this clip and see ya tonight.

Side note: it looks like he is using a Taylor 514 ce there…..ooooo my guitar soooo coool

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How to tune an acoustic guitar?

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My baby sitting pretty on my bed

I have been having the urge to re-string my guitar for the longest time. But somehow I just couldn’t get myself to do it for some weird reasons. After procrastinating for months, I finally got down to it!! At midnight last night. Am I crazy or what? I just felt like it. Haha, you’re right, I actually follow my emotions a lot!

So there lay my baby….beautiful as can be. And to treat your baby right you need the right tools. You want to spoil her not SPOIL her. First I must say, the way I do this may not be the way professionals agree on doing it. Now I must say I am not pro, I just find that this work for me.

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First I have my new strings! My favorites are these; Ernie Ball Super Slinky Coated Titanium’s. Why? I’m no Elixir fan because they are too bright and just not my kind of sound. I was recommended these by a friend. I tried a few out before this and I must say these sound the sweetest. They cost the same as elixirs though‚Ķthat’s a downside. Upside is I really like the fact that it has titanium reinforcements cause I’m really a heavy strummer. Now I can play hard and not worry they’ll snap on me. I was wondering‚Ķ..will they really work? They do. I can’t even break my old strings. These strings have kind of a nice blend in between normal phosphor bronze strings sound and elixir bright sounds. Another thing I really really like? They are coated and are gold in color on the 1st 3 strings‚Ķ..nice! They are not silver like the usual. So nice!!

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Next is a must have. The ultimate guitar-tuning tool! The planet waves pro winder. It is a tuner head winder, string clipper and a bridge pin puller. It is not expensive too. And it works. It does the job well as you will see later.

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Pro-winder transform!!

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Then you must have a good cloth to wipe your guitar. Not just any cloth but one that will not scratch your guitar. There are many many types of cloths available. Micro fiber cloths are good too. I have one but I’m not using that this time.

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To accompany the cloth to remove the dirt, I got this Fender mist cleaner. It is not a polish because some say that polish actually spoils the guitar finish. This is just to remove those things that dirty you guitar like oil, dried saliva and dust! Hehe yeah quite disgusting.

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So the first thing I do is loosen the strings.
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Then I’ll remove the bridge pins. Use the pro-winder or else you’ll damage your bridge‚Ķ

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Then I unwind the tuning heads one by one until they are loosed enough for me to remove the strings from the bridge.

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It is time to remove the unwind strings at the headstock then

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My photographer had to arrange the pins and take this photograph!

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I usually coil together the old strings like that together for easy disposal

It is time to clean my guitar. Body, neck and all until it is shiny miny! (I invented that word; shiny miny. Nice?). Oh I don’t spray anything on the neck area. Only the body and head stock. I think it will damage it.

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Looking good with the new set of strings all ready…..can you spot my toes? hahaha

After cleaning it so beautifully, it is time to re-string it with the new set of strings.

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Unpacking them gently then placing them in the bridge holes then, I proceed to place the bridge pins in.

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Then I start with the thickest string first, the 6th string. After putting in through the tuning heads hole, I then use one hand to hold it at the hole then with the other, I use my thumb to stretch it up and measure it with my pointer finger on the 5th fret. The height of the second finger will give it just the right length for tuning. If you have long fingers. You could probably use the 4th fret.

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With that length held earlier, that hand will proceed to bend the strings at the hole at a 90 degrees angle.
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It is time to cut off the extra length of string and then now we can begin tuning that string until you get a reasonably good tension (not too much). Turning the tuning head anti clockwise. You will see that the length works out beautifully. I do that for all the strings by order. Take note that you turn the bottom tuning heads anti clock wise as well.

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See how nice the length turned out on the tuning head? Not too much not too little?

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My transforming pro winder cutting the string snip snip snip

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All nice and trimmed

When I’ve got all 6 strings done. I start tuning from the 6th string again with a tuner. Each time stretching the string a little and re-tuning. If this is not done, you will realize that the tuning will run as you play. Do it as many times as necessary until the pitch becomes stable and doesn’t go out of tune. Do it with every string then you will see that the 6th string will be out of tune again because the neck tension has changed. So I would repeat it until the strings pitch doesn’t run.

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Ta da! We’re done. So easy! Right? I hope I have been clear enough haha. Here are some more pics of my baby. She sounds so so so so sweet now.

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Ever wondered what love is? This is it.

Dedicated to the people I love. My Family and also my family in God

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Communion

Hi Everyone,

I know that I had disappeared for quite a while from the blogosphere because I have been really caught up with too much. Even now I blog because I have to for my assignment, how terrible……

But I guarantee you that things will resume to normal after Easter. It has been a mad house here in my life too much happening and all.

Here is an article I am to review‚Ķ.but I do find that my thoughts have been rather provoked by it. I will attempt to summarize it fairly then give my thoughts on the issue he brought up in Christian Worship. But even more, I hope to really get your thoughts about this issue as much as possible. You see, I really like discussions. I like my thoughts to be challenged. I must say I don’t have all the answers but certainly I do hope I can find out the answers together as well. So kindly pen your comments down and let us really see where this lead‚Ķ..oooooo so exciting

This article is written by J. Frederick Holper who is currently a professor of preaching and worship at McCormick Theological Seminary in Chicago, Illinois. Before coming to McCormick in 1998, Holper taught for six years as professor of liturgics and homiletics at Union Seminary in Virginia where he wrote this article. Before Union Seminary, he served on the faculty of Austin Presbyterian Theological Seminary as assistant and associate professor of homiletics and liturgics. While completing his doctoral graduate work at the University of Notre Dame he served two interim pastorates in South Bend, Indiana, and for three years as pastor at The Presbyterian Church in Orland Park, Illinois. Early in his career, he held positions as a newspaper reporter for The Milwaukee Journal and the Chicago Tribune.

In addition to his professional positions, Fred has done extensive work with the Presbyterian Church (USA) in the areas of liturgy, ministry, and ordination

Holper has produced numerous published articles, lecture series and workshops in such subjects as ministry and ordination, the sacraments, worship and Christian education, new directions in Presbyterian worship, and daily prayer.

Holper’s continuous effort in the area of education of church worship is the driving point for this article. In this article, he attempts to deal with the issue of the Eucharist (Communion) in the churches today. Holper believes that in our recovery of worship and the importance of the place of Communion together with the preaching of the Word within worship itself, we have yet to come to a point where what we understand in theory has come to practice in a fashion that is right.

Holper’s view is that the current focus on preaching and other areas that actually deter the possibility of a more frequent celebration of the Communion in churches. He suggests that in fact a weekly celebration of Communion would be good.

He suggests that the problem lies within the congregation’s resistance to change from the way things are. Therefore there needs to be a systems approach in resolving this issue. To summarize it, we often focus on a specific problem but we do not realize that the issue is part of a larger system of which this problem is part of. Therefore to make a change in this area for example, the church needs to see the larger congregational system which includes education, evangelism and etc. He clearly identifies these subsystems and reveals the issues involved and how these have an effect on worship as a whole.

After the diagnosis of the problem, he then offers how we can intervene in solving these resistances. He gives fives interventions which he believes will enhance the possibility for a change like the frequent celebration on the Communion.

He believes that this issue is one that may not even change in his lifetime because the changes to implement this within the churches systems will not come by easy. Holper believes that for many centuries now either the Word or Communion has been neglected.

Reading this article I must say, he did not make it easy for people to understand. Firstly I would agree that in terms of communion, over the years I have heard less preaching and teaching on it compared to other areas of worship such as singing, offering, the preaching of the Word and prayer. Now given that thought I believe his assumption that people would believe that the practice of Communion should be done frequently is something noble. I agree also to make such changes within the worship system is tough.

My issue would be this. Is the practice of the symbolic action of communion necessary to be that frequent? Does the breaking of bread in the early church symbolize a formal Communion ceremony every time they met? Was the purpose of the Communion to be something we do or to focus on a deeper meaning like the end of the title which is missing suggest; Remember Me?

As much as he suggest that frequent celebrations of the Communion will revive church health. I believe in the essence of it all is not the frequent celebration that is necessary but better teaching, understanding, and meaningful practice of the communion is however more important. His systems approach will also help us achieve a change in this area.

On the other hand Holper does not seem to give reason enough on why a weekly celebration is needed or why it has to go hand in hand with the Word. It would seem to me that he would suggest that it is vital for the church to celebrate it frequently but does not help us understand why. From what I see, Communion was purposeful and to have it frequently has to be purposeful. Therefore I do not see the symbol of Communion being frequent being something needed for the church rather the act of worship through our lives that lives out the Communion frequently that is vital.

So in your opinion, should it be a weekly celebration in church? What do you think is the benefit of having is more often than not? Do you agree with him? How do you suggest we solve this? Or just share any thoughts at all

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I love this Chorus:

I thought this song was really clever. Love the chords and the lyrics are creative. But the Chorus just hits straight into my heart. Luther Vandross, it is so sad that you left us. Your music will be something that impacts me for the longest time.

I’d rather have bad times with you, than good times with someone else
I’d rather be beside you in a storm, than safe and warm by myself
I’d rather have hard times together, than to have it easy apart
I’d rather have the one who holds my heart

Man, that is just so awesome and cool. This was one song that hooked me the first time I heard it years ago :) . Enjoy


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Since I have been in Singapore as some of you know, the Lord has blessed me tremendously. I am here not to boast of what I have but to boast about  how much GOD HAS BLESSED me. It is amazing. I have all I have ever dreamed of. And I need to really thank Him for everything. This is indeed a miracle to me.

9 months ago I was in need of a guitar and God provided me with my dream guitar…a Taylor 514 ce

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Then I wanted a phone that would have all the functions I needed and God provided the Samsung Omnia

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I needed a pair of shades and I got a dream pair or Rudy Projects

Not too long later, I was given a notebook for work! – HP 6510

Then I sold off my notebooks (except the one at work) and got myself a workstation PC at home the Imac 24 inch.

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Thinking I had like the most amazing  array of gifts, I was given an Iphone for Christmas. Yes dear readers, I was blessed with an Iphone 16GB. I wrapped it up and it looks like this:

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Now just a few days ago. It arrived. Something I never dreamed I would have. Many times this dream vanished into thin air. Yet it fell right into my hands. The Macbook Air. Oh it is so beautiful. I’m going to be able to do so much more now!

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Doesn’t it look great?

Looking back, I don’t know why I am so melancholic and not see that God has truly blessed me beyond my wildest dreams with things that a person in my position would normally not have. It is only by God’s grace this can happen. I could never afford it all on my own and to think it all happened in a blink of an eye. Some people may think I am rich. The fact is, I’m not rich but my Father in heaven is truly rich and generous.

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Grace Everlasting Project

Our Studio

This is a picture of our beautiful studio in church

I have been given responsibility of a huge project and I’m really really nervous. It is the church’s CD project. This year we will be coming up with a live worship album! I’m so excited at the same time very nervous and worried. The timeline seems to past too fast.

There will be a Live Worship at my church at the end of the year and it will be recorded into an album of all entirely Grace written songs. If I am fortunate enough and if the songs are good enough, you will hear some of them in the album. The recording process and song writing process that we’ve been doing so far is pretty exciting. I can’t wait.

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Closer look at the board!

The pressure to perform and to make it nice is also killing me. I don’t know if I can do it! For any Grace member who reads this blog. Join me in the excitement. You’ll be hearing these songs introduced to you in the worship services very soon. We want to hear your feedback on which song really blesses you and we’ll choose the best to be placed in the album.

Also if you have written songs. Submit them! Quickly. We covet your songs! Spread the word around. Just send me the song with a vocal and an instrument playing and we’ll do the rest. If your song has the potential to make it, it will sound great, trust me :)

For the rest, I will work on streaming the song demos for you all to hear. Give us your feedback ok? Tell us if you love it or loathe it. We want honest feedbacks. Thank you.

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Another angle of our studio workspace

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Album Review : Fireflight – Unbreakable

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I came across this album about a week ago. I went on a mad cd shopping frenzy again and my friend got angry with me cause I grabbed one cd from her. Sobs, I’m a terrible person. I want to apologize here. Please forgive me.

Sighsssssss bad news aside, I am here to review a CD. I chose this cd firstly is because this stood out among the rest when I first placed it in to my player. The first song got me out of my seat! There aren’t many Christian Rock bands with a female lead singer. Even more, I most I’ve heard so far boring. Now this one is plain hot! It just really made adrenaline rush through my body.

This is in between heavy rock and pop rock. Reminds me of something what I felt when I first heard the secular band Evanescense. They have that sort of feel, but not so gothic and dark. Very positive sounding yet very strong with the emotions. Feels like I want to scream my lungs out. I must also say that their hooks in their songs are nice! I have yet to read up more about them but lyrically they sound really cool. Teenagers will love them.

Her voice is sweet yet so strong. Oooh very very nice! Mastering sounds good too, it is a very well produced album in my opinion. I have been looking for an album like this for a long time. Even more a rock female singer. We needed a good one. I’m loving them. I wanted to scream out all the emotions inside and these songs just got out all the negative emotions inside me.

I really love the song ‘Stand Up’. Man I want to scream like that. I only wish I was a rock singer! Haha…..little dream of being a rock star coming out haha. No la, I cannot sing rock. Look at the lyrics, it’s just so cool! And the song is great as well.

Look at all the lonely hearts
Shivering out in the dark
Hiding from the truth
Cover up the proof
Demons that I’ve tried to hide
Imprison me in my own lies
And all that I can do is cover up the proof
Don’t be afraid to…

Stand up!
Stand up if you’re broken
Stand up!
Stand up if you feel ashamed
You are not alone when you hurt this way
Stand up!
Stand up if you need love
Stand up!
This is not judgment day
You don’t have to hide
There’s no need to run
Everything will be okay

Secrets got me torn apart
Trying to destroy my heart
But I can see the light
It’s cutting through the night
Don’t run away
(Don’t run away)
Don’t be afraid to…

You say You love me
That’s all I’ll ever need
If You say I’m good enough
That’s good enough for me

The best part, is I love every song in the album, which is rare because I seldom like every song in an album even though it is from my favorite artists. This is their second album, before this I didn’t hear of them. Now this album made headlines with 4 Dove Award nominations!

Artist of the Year

Rock/Contemporary Album

Rock/Contemporary Recorded Song – Unbreakable

Rock Recorded Song – The Hunger

Check out the nice sounds I’m talking about at their website http://www.fireflightrock.com/

Album Rating : 9.5/10

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The Lord Reigns

I’m going to use this song for my worship this sunday! Leading it. This song is so stuck in my head. Ooooo so nice

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